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Writer's pictureEllis Wood ADI

How can I develop myself spiritually?

Updated: Aug 19, 2023


If you're anything like me and you're interested in tarot, mysticism, haunting and life coaching, then you can benefit from various techniques to enhance your spiritual practices and develop the skill of recognising synchronicity. Here are some techniques you can consider:

1.    Meditation and Mindfulness: You can try regular meditation and mindfulness practices. As someone interested in tarot, mysticism, and life coaching, here's how you might incorporate meditation and mindfulness into your daily life:


  • ·      Morning Meditation: Begin your day with a meditation session. Find a quiet and comfortable space, sit in a relaxed posture, and focus on your breath. Set positive intentions for the day and visualise your goals.

  • ·      Tarot Contemplation: Use meditation to deepen your connection with tarot cards. Before a reading, take a few minutes to meditate on the card you draw. Reflect on its symbolism, messages, and how it relates to your current situation.

  • ·      Guided Mystical Journeys: Explore guided meditations that take you on mystical journeys. These journeys can lead you to enchanted landscapes, ancient temples, or encounters with spiritual guides, enhancing your connection to the mystical realms.

  • ·      Mindful Presence: Practice mindfulness during everyday activities. When you eat, savour each bite, paying attention to the tastes, textures, and sensations. When you walk, focus on the rhythm of your steps and the environment around you.

  • ·      Breathing for Calm: Engage in breathing exercises to calm your mind and reduce stress. Incorporate techniques like deep belly breathing or alternate nostril breathing into your routine whenever you need a moment of tranquility.

  • ·      Emotional Awareness: Use mindfulness to become aware of your emotions without judgment. When faced with challenging emotions, pause, observe them, and give yourself permission to feel without reacting impulsively.

  • ·      Intuitive Insights: Practice mindfulness while engaging in intuitive activities like tarot readings. Quiet your mind, connect with your intuition, and allow the insights to flow without overthinking.

  • ·      Evening Reflection: End your day with a reflective meditation. Review your day, acknowledge your achievements and lessons, and release any stress or negativity. Set positive intentions for a restful night.

  • ·      Chakra Balancing: Explore chakra-focused meditation to align your energy centres. Visualise each chakra's colour and energy, allowing them to spin harmoniously and enhance your overall well-being.

  • ·      Spiritual Connection: Use meditation to connect with your inner self and the universe. Explore higher states of consciousness, seek guidance from your spiritual guides, and deepen your connection to the mysteries of existence.

  • ·      Manifestation: Use meditation to manifest your desires. Visualise your goals as already achieved, infusing them with positive emotions and intentions.

  • Remember that meditation and mindfulness are personal practices, so adapt them to your preferences and needs. Consistency is key, so aim to incorporate these practices into your daily routine. Approach them with an open heart, patience, and self-compassion, allowing them to enhance your spiritual journey and personal growth.

2.    Journaling: You can keep a journal where you can record your thoughts, dreams, and experiences related to your spiritual journey. This can help you gain clarity, track your progress, and notice patterns. You can be more specific than a diary by only recording anything related to your spiritual journey such as strange occurrences, mindful thoughts and intuitive reasoning.


3.    Tarot and Oracle Cards: How about using tarot or oracle cards for self-reflection and guidance. Regular card pulls can provide insights into your current situations and offer guidance for their spiritual path. Using tarot and oracle cards for self-reflection and guidance can be a powerful way to tap into your intuition, gain insights, and navigate life's challenges. Here's how you might incorporate these cards into your personal practice:


  • Setting Intentions: Before a card reading, set a clear intention. It could be related to a specific question, a general area of your life you'd like guidance on, or even a theme for personal growth.

  • Creating a Sacred Space: Find a quiet and peaceful space where you won't be disturbed. Create a serene atmosphere with calming music, candles, and any other elements that help you feel connected.

  • Shuffling with Intention: As you shuffle the cards, focus on your intention. You might visualize your question or simply hold the intention in your mind as you shuffle.

  • Drawing the Cards: When you feel ready, draw the cards. You can choose a specific spread that resonates with your needs or simply draw a single card for a quick insight.

  • Contemplation: Take time to look at the cards you've drawn. Observe the images, symbols, and colors. Allow your intuition to guide you as you reflect on what the cards might be communicating.

  • Journaling: Write down your initial thoughts, feelings, and impressions of the cards. What messages do you sense they are conveying? How do they relate to your intention?

  • Symbolic Interpretation: Explore the traditional meanings of the cards, but also consider how the symbolism resonates with your personal experience. Cards can have unique meanings for each individual.

  • Emotional Connection: Pay attention to your emotional response to the cards. Do any feelings or memories arise as you connect with the imagery? Your emotions can offer valuable insights.

  • Intuitive Insights: Trust your intuition. Sometimes, you might receive intuitive hits or sudden realizations that go beyond the literal interpretation of the cards.

  • Journaling Reflections: After your contemplation, write a more detailed reflection in your journal. Explore how the cards' messages apply to your current situation, decisions, or challenges.

  • Action Steps: Based on your reflections, identify actionable steps you can take to apply the insights from the cards to your life. This could involve shifting perspectives, making decisions, or focusing on personal growth.

  • Regular Practice: Make card readings a regular practice. It might be daily, weekly, or whenever you feel the need for guidance. Consistency helps you build a stronger intuitive connection.


Remember, your relationship with tarot and oracle cards is personal. It's about your intuition, your connection to the symbols, and your journey of self-discovery. Approach each reading with an open heart, an open mind, and a willingness to embrace the insights that come your way. Over time, you'll develop a deeper understanding of the cards and their ability to guide you on your spiritual path.


4.    Intuitive Development: For some people using exercises can help them strengthen their intuitive abilities. I would encourage you to trust your gut feelings, practice with simple decisions, and reflect on your accuracy. Developing your intuitive senses is a gradual process that involves self-awareness, practice, and openness. Given your interest in tarot, mysticism, and life coaching, here are some tailored steps to help you enhance your intuitive abilities:


  • Mindful Awareness: Practice mindfulness in your daily life. Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and sensations. This heightened awareness can help you notice subtle intuitive nudges.

  • Meditation: Regular meditation cultivates inner stillness, making it easier to hear your intuition. Focus on your breath or use guided meditations that specifically target intuition development.

  • Quiet Your Mind: Find moments of quietude each day. Intuitive insights often come when the mind is calm and free from clutter.

  • Journaling: Keep an intuition journal. Write down hunches, gut feelings, and intuitive hits. Over time, you may notice patterns or themes.

  • Trust Your Gut: Pay attention to your "gut feelings." These instinctual responses can offer valuable guidance.

  • Dream Interpretation: Record your dreams and explore their symbolism. Dreams often carry intuitive messages.

  • Intuitive Exercises: Engage in exercises to stretch your intuitive muscles. For instance, try guessing who's calling before you answer the phone.

  • Tarot and Oracle Practice: Regularly use tarot or oracle cards for yourself. As you study their symbolism and trust your interpretations, your intuitive abilities will grow.

  • Visualization: Practice guided visualizations to connect with your inner wisdom. Imagine receiving answers to specific questions.

  • Nature Connection: Spend time in nature. Nature has a way of awakening our intuitive senses.

  • Trust and Patience: Be patient with yourself. Developing intuition takes time. Trust that your intuitive abilities will unfold at the right pace.

  • Positive Environment: Surround yourself with supportive and like-minded individuals who encourage your intuitive growth.

  • Self-Care: Nurturing your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being creates an optimal environment for intuitive development.

  • Intuition as Play: Approach intuition as a playful exploration rather than a rigid skill to master. This reduces pressure and enhances receptivity.

  • Reflect and Analyze: Regularly reflect on instances where your intuition was accurate. What signs or feelings did you experience? This reflection enhances your understanding of your own intuition.

  • Intuitive Exercises with Others: Practice intuitive exercises with friends or fellow enthusiasts. Exchange intuitive impressions or insights on various subjects.


Remember, intuition is unique to each individual. It's about understanding your personal symbols, signals, and sensations. Keep an open heart and embrace the journey of self-discovery. Over time, your intuitive senses will become sharper, and you'll develop a deeper trust in your inner guidance.


5.    Visualization: Guided visualization exercises can manifest your desires and connect with your inner selves. Visualization can enhance your ability to connect with your intentions on a deeper level.Guided meditation can be a powerful tool for relaxation, self-discovery, and personal growth, especially in the context of your interests in tarot, mysticism, and life coaching. Here's how you can make the most of guided meditation:


  • Select Appropriate Guided Meditations: Look for guided meditations that align with your goals and interests. Whether you're seeking relaxation, intuitive development, or spiritual insight, choose meditations that resonate with you.

  • Create a Serene Environment: Find a quiet and comfortable space where you won't be disturbed. Dim the lights, light a candle, and set the ambiance to support your meditation experience.

  • Set an Intention: Before you begin, set an intention for your guided meditation. This could be relaxation, insight, stress relief, or any other intention that aligns with your current needs.

  • Choose a Time: Decide on the length of the meditation session. Guided meditations can range from a few minutes to an hour or more. Choose a duration that fits your schedule and level of comfort.

  • Prepare Mind and Body: Sit or lie down in a comfortable position. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to center yourself.

  • Follow the Guidance: Let go of any expectations and simply follow the voice guiding the meditation. Allow yourself to fully immerse in the experience.

  • Visualize: Many guided meditations involve visualization. Engage your imagination and create a vivid mental landscape based on the meditation's prompts.

  • Embrace Sensations: If the meditation guides you to notice physical sensations, emotions, or images, embrace them without judgment. These can offer insights.

  • Breathe: Focus on your breath. Guided meditations often incorporate rhythmic breathing to help you relax and stay present.

  • Feelings of Peace: Guided meditations often induce feelings of peace and calm. Embrace these sensations and allow yourself to fully experience them.

  • Reflect Afterward: After the guided meditation ends, take a few moments to reflect on your experience. Journal your feelings, insights, or any symbolism that stood out to you.

  • Consistency: Make guided meditation a regular practice. The more you engage with it, the more you'll benefit from its effects.

  • Variety: Explore a variety of guided meditations. Try ones with different focuses, such as chakra alignment, manifesting, inner child healing, or connecting with your guides.

  • Trust the Process: Sometimes the benefits of guided meditation unfold over time. Trust that even if you don't notice immediate effects, your subconscious mind is absorbing the positive influences.

  • Be Kind to Yourself: If your mind wanders during the meditation, gently bring your focus back to the guidance. Meditation is a practice, and it's natural for the mind to wander.


Guided meditation can be a valuable addition to your spiritual and personal growth journey. It offers you the opportunity to explore different aspects of yourself, gain insights, and nurture a deeper connection to your inner wisdom.


6.    Rituals and Ceremonies:  Various rituals or ceremonies can align with your interests. These can be as simple as taking 5 minutes to yourself at set times of the day. You can also include full moon rituals, energy cleansing practices, and intention-setting ceremonies. Engaging in rituals and ceremonies can be a powerful way to nurture your spiritual growth and connection, aligning with your interests in tarot, mysticism, and life coaching. Here are some rituals and ceremonies you might consider incorporating into your spiritual practice:


  • Full Moon Rituals: Celebrate the energy of the full moon by creating a ritual that involves meditation, journaling, and setting intentions for the coming month. You can also charge crystals or perform card readings during this time.

  • New Moon Intentions: During the new moon, set intentions for the upcoming cycle. Write down what you wish to manifest, and use tarot or oracle cards to gain insights into how to best work towards your goals.

  • Energy Cleansing: Regularly cleanse your space and energy. You can use sage, palo santo, or incense to smudge your surroundings. As you cleanse, visualize negative energies dissipating.

  • Morning Gratitude: Start your day with a gratitude ritual. Take a few moments to express gratitude for the blessings in your life, setting a positive tone for the day.

  • Visualization Rituals: Practice visualization to manifest your desires. Set aside time to visualize your goals as already achieved, engaging your senses to make the experience vivid.

  • Sabbats and Equinoxes: Honor the changing seasons and cycles of nature by celebrating the sabbats and equinoxes. Create rituals that connect you with the energies of each season.

  • Divination Sessions: Incorporate regular divination sessions into your routine. Draw tarot cards, use oracle cards, or practice other forms of divination to gain insights and guidance.

  • Meditation Retreats: Dedicate a day or weekend to a personal meditation retreat. Engage in extended meditation sessions, reflection, and self-discovery.

  • Elemental Rituals: Create rituals that involve the elements—earth, air, fire, water, and spirit. These rituals can help you connect with the fundamental energies of existence.

  • Altar Creation: Create a sacred altar space that resonates with your spiritual journey. Arrange crystals, candles, tarot cards, and other meaningful items.

  • Self-Love Ceremonies: Dedicate time to nurturing self-love and self-care. Perform rituals that affirm your worth and prioritize your well-being.

  • Dream Journaling: Create a ritual around dream journaling. Keep a journal by your bedside and record your dreams each morning, exploring their symbolism and messages.

  • Rites of Passage: Mark significant life transitions with personalized rites of passage. These ceremonies can symbolize growth, change, and transformation.

  • Crystal Charging: Use the energy of the sun or moon to charge your crystals. Place them under the celestial light to enhance their energy.

  • Oracle Card Rituals: Pull oracle cards for daily guidance. Create a ritual around selecting a card each morning to set the tone for your day.


Remember, the effectiveness of these rituals and ceremonies lies in your intention and connection. Tailor them to resonate with your personal beliefs and aspirations. Consistency and an open heart are key to deepening your spiritual practice and experiencing meaningful growth.


7.    Gratitude Practice: It is also very important to practice gratitude. Gratitude helps raise you vibration and enhances your connection to positive energies. It can combat negative automatic thoughts. Practicing gratitude is a wonderful way to cultivate positivity, enhance your well-being, and align with your interests in tarot, mysticism, and life coaching. Here's how you can make gratitude a meaningful part of your daily life:


  • Morning Reflection: Start your day by reflecting on three things you're grateful for. It could be the comfort of your bed, a new day, or the opportunities ahead.

  • Gratitude Journal: Keep a gratitude journal. Each day, write down a few things you're thankful for. Over time, this journal becomes a treasure trove of positivity.

  • Gratitude Walks: During walks, focus on the beauty around you. Express gratitude for the nature, architecture, or people you encounter.

  • Mealtime Gratitude: Before meals, take a moment to appreciate the nourishment on your plate. Express gratitude for the effort that went into its preparation.

  • Before Sleep: As you wind down in the evening, reflect on the day's highlights. Acknowledge moments that brought you joy or made you smile.

  • Gratitude Meditation: Engage in a guided gratitude meditation. Visualize the things you're thankful for, allowing positive emotions to flow.

  • Write Thank-You Notes: Send thank-you notes to friends, family, or colleagues. Expressing gratitude not only uplifts you but also strengthens relationships.

  • Gratitude Tarot/Oracle Spread: Use tarot or oracle cards to create a gratitude spread. Pull cards that represent things you're grateful for and reflect on their symbolism.

  • Affirmations of Gratitude: Incorporate gratitude into your daily affirmations. Repeat statements like "I am grateful for all the blessings in my life."

  • Random Acts of Kindness: Perform small acts of kindness for others. Expressing gratitude through actions can be deeply fulfilling.

  • Gratitude Altar: Create a gratitude altar with items that symbolize your blessings. Offer thanks to the universe as you interact with this space.

  • Gratitude Challenges: Join online gratitude challenges or communities. Engaging with others who share gratitude can amplify the positive energy.

  • Self-Appreciation: Express gratitude for yourself. Acknowledge your strengths, achievements, and the progress you're making.

  • Gratitude Jar: Keep a gratitude jar on your desk. Write down things you're thankful for on small pieces of paper and add them to the jar.

  • Pause in Challenges: When facing challenges, find something positive to be grateful for. Shifting your focus can help you navigate difficulties with a better perspective.

  • Gratitude Rituals: Create personal rituals around gratitude. Light a candle, offer a silent thank you, and take a moment to appreciate your blessings.


Remember, gratitude is a practice that evolves with time. Approach it with authenticity and a sincere heart. As you incorporate gratitude into your daily routine, you'll notice positive shifts in your perspective, emotions, and overall sense of fulfillment.


8.    Self-Care: Self-care should be an integral part in your spiritual journey. Practices like self-love, affirmations, nurturing activities, and healthy habits should be part of your daily routine. You cannot pour anything from an empty vessel so self care comes first. Incorporating self-care into your spiritual journey is essential for maintaining balance, nurturing your well-being, and enhancing your connection to your interests in tarot, mysticism, and life coaching. Here's how you can seamlessly blend self-care with your spiritual path:


  • Mindful Morning Routine: Begin your day with intention. Engage in mindfulness, meditation, or gentle stretching to set a positive tone for the day.

  • Personal Rituals: Create personalized rituals that nourish your soul. It could be lighting candles, sipping herbal tea mindfully, or practicing gratitude.

  • Regular Meditation: Dedicate time to regular meditation sessions. This not only enhances your spiritual growth but also promotes mental clarity and emotional well-being.

  • Nature Connection: Spend time in nature. Walks, hikes, or simply sitting under a tree can ground you and deepen your spiritual connection.

  • Body Movement: Engage in activities that honor your body, such as yoga, dance, or tai chi. Movement can be a form of moving meditation.

  • Healthy Nutrition: Nourish your body with whole foods that support your energy levels and overall health. Prepare meals mindfully, appreciating the nutrients they provide.

  • Sacred Space: Create a sacred space in your home. Decorate it with meaningful items that inspire and uplift you.

  • Energetic Cleansing: Regularly cleanse your energy using practices like smudging, visualization, or salt baths to release negative energies.

  • Digital Detox: Take breaks from screens to reconnect with yourself. Engage in activities that don't involve technology.

  • Rest and Sleep: Prioritize sleep and rest. A well-rested body and mind are more receptive to spiritual experiences.

  • Journaling: Maintain a journal for self-reflection. Write about your spiritual insights, goals, and emotional experiences.

  • Creative Expression: Express yourself creatively. Whether it's through art, writing, or crafting, creative activities can be deeply spiritual.

  • Intuitive Practices: Dedicate time to intuitive practices like tarot readings, oracle card pulls, or divination. These activities connect you to your inner wisdom.

  • Set Boundaries: Say no to activities or commitments that drain your energy. Setting healthy boundaries is an act of self-care.

  • Social Connections: Surround yourself with supportive and positive people. Engage in meaningful conversations that nurture your spirit.

  • Alone Time: Embrace solitude. Use this time to connect with your inner self, meditate, and recharge.

  • Practice Forgiveness: Forgive yourself for perceived mistakes or shortcomings. Self-compassion is a form of self-care.

  • Learn Continuously: Continue to explore and learn about topics that interest you. This intellectual engagement enhances your spiritual growth.

  • Breathwork: Practice deep breathing exercises to center yourself, release tension, and connect with your breath.

  • Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge your progress along the spiritual journey. Celebrate milestones, no matter how small.


Remember that self-care is a continuous practice, not a one-time event. Listen to your body, heart, and intuition to determine what practices resonate with you in each moment. By consistently prioritizing self-care, you create a strong foundation for spiritual growth, self-discovery, and overall well-being.


As for training yourself to look for synchronicity:


1.    Awareness: You should try to be more aware of your surroundings and the events happening around you. Synchronicities often appear as meaningful coincidences.

2.    Intentions: Set intentions to recognize synchronicities. When you actively look for meaningful connections, you are more likely to notice them.

3.    Journaling: Putting your thoughts into a journal about any experiences that feel significant or synchronistic over time you may see that patterns may emerge.

4.    Symbolism: Try to recognise symbols and signs that are important to you personally. When you encounter these symbols unexpectedly, it can signal a synchronistic event.

5.    Trust Intuition: Trust their intuition. Sometimes, a strong feeling that something is significant can be a sign of synchronicity.

6.    Open Mindset: Approach life with an open mind. Synchronicities often occur when you are receptive to the unexpected.

7.    Discussion: You can use my Facebook page 'TarotWithEllis' to discuss and share your experiences. Discussing synchronicities with others can lead to new perspectives and insights.


By incorporating these techniques into your daily lives, you can enhance your spiritual practices, deepen your connection to your inner self, and develop a keen eye for recognizing the meaningful synchronicities that guide your journeys. However not everything you see and hear is a sign, you should also remember a saying I have for myself, "sometimes a banana is just a banana" but all things do happen for a reason.

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